{"id":3598,"date":"2024-12-02T08:04:54","date_gmt":"2024-12-02T08:04:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/happycouples.at\/?p=3598"},"modified":"2026-10-03T19:32:40","modified_gmt":"2026-10-03T19:32:40","slug":"asesoramiento-de-parejas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/happycouples.at\/es\/beitrag\/asesoramiento-de-parejas\/","title":{"rendered":"Asesoramiento de parejas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=\u00bb1&#8243; custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb admin_label=\u00bbHeader\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.2&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb background_color=\u00bb#1A5755&#8243; background_image=\u00bbhttps:\/\/happycouples.at\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/Blog-Linie-4.svg\u00bb width=\u00bb100%\u00bb max_width=\u00bb100%\u00bb module_alignment=\u00bbcenter\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb||20px||false|false\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][et_pb_row column_structure=\u00bb2_3,1_3&#8243; custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.2&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb width=\u00bb100%\u00bb max_width=\u00bb1926px\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb0px||0px||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb70px||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb46px||0px||false|false\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00bb2_3&#8243; _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.0&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb|||5vw|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb|5vw||5vw|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb|5vw||5vw|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][dsm_breadcrumbs items_bottom=\u00bb0px\u00bb separator_bottom=\u00bb12px\u00bb current_bottom=\u00bb0px\u00bb admin_label=\u00bbBreadcrumbs\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.2&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb items_font_size=\u00bb13px\u00bb home_icon_font_size=\u00bb14px\u00bb separators_text_color=\u00bb#F0ECEC\u00bb separators_font_size=\u00bb13px\u00bb current_text_color=\u00bb#F0ECEC\u00bb current_font_size=\u00bb13px\u00bb custom_margin=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb||0px||false|false\u00bb custom_css_main_element=\u00bbmargin-bottom: 20px !important;\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/dsm_breadcrumbs][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbBeitragstitel (H1) \u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.9&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb text_text_color=\u00bb#F0ECEC\u00bb header_text_color=\u00bb#F0ECEC\u00bb custom_margin=\u00bb||10px||false|false\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb||10px||false|false\u00bb hover_enabled=\u00bb0&#8243; header_font_size_tablet=\u00bb40px\u00bb header_font_size_phone=\u00bb32px\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb content_last_edited=\u00bbon|tablet\u00bb sticky_enabled=\u00bb0&#8243; content_tablet=\u00bb<\/p>\n<h1>\u00bfC\u00f3mo funciona el asesoramiento de parejas basado en la diferenciaci\u00f3n?<\/h1>\n<p>\u00bb content_phone=\u00bb<\/p>\n<h1>\u00bfC\u00f3mo funciona el asesoramiento de parejas basado en la diferenciaci\u00f3n?<\/h1>\n<p>\u00ab]<\/p>\n<h1>\u00bfC\u00f3mo funciona el asesoramiento de parejas basado en la diferenciaci\u00f3n?<\/h1>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbText\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb text_text_color=\u00bb#F0ECEC\u00bb text_font_size=\u00bb20px\u00bb text_line_height=\u00bb1.5em\u00bb header_3_text_color=\u00bb#F0ECEC\u00bb text_font_size_tablet=\u00bb20px\u00bb text_font_size_phone=\u00bb18px\u00bb text_font_size_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb custom_css_main_element=\u00bbline-height: 1.6em !important;\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfLe interesa saber c\u00f3mo trabajo? \u00bfC\u00f3mo funciona el asesoramiento de parejas seg\u00fan David Schnarch y es este m\u00e9todo adecuado para m\u00ed? Quieres ser fiel a ti mismo y tener una relaci\u00f3n sentimental satisfactoria al mismo tiempo &#8211; \u00a1descubre aqu\u00ed c\u00f3mo puede ayudarte mi asesoramiento!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=\u00bb1_3&#8243; _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.0&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=\u00bb1&#8243; admin_label=\u00bbInhalt\u00bb module_class=\u00bbcontentbereich\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.2&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb background_color=\u00bbRGBA(255,255,255,0)\u00bb width=\u00bb100%\u00bb max_width=\u00bb100%\u00bb module_alignment=\u00bbcenter\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][et_pb_row column_structure=\u00bb3_4,1_4&#8243; make_equal=\u00bbon\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.0&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb width=\u00bb100%\u00bb max_width=\u00bb1926px\u00bb custom_margin_tablet=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_margin_phone=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_margin_last_edited=\u00bboff|desktop\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb0px||||false|false\u00bb custom_css_main_element=\u00bbalign-self: center;\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][et_pb_column type=\u00bb3_4&#8243; _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.0&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb|5vw||5vw|false|true\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb|5vw||5vw|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb|5vw||5vw|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb custom_css_main_element=\u00bbalign-self: center;\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbInhaltsverzeichnis\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00cdndice<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"#teil-1\">La prueba pr\u00e1ctica: \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa concretamente la diferenciaci\u00f3n? <\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#teil-2\">\u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre exactamente durante el asesoramiento? \u00bfTiene todo una estructura?<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#teil-3\">Los cuatro puntos de equilibrio seg\u00fan David Schnarch<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#teil-4\">C\u00f3mo ciertas preguntas promueven tu capacidad para mantenerte fiel a ti mismo y tener una relaci\u00f3n amorosa satisfactoria al mismo tiempo.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#teil-5\">Resumen<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbEs gibt viele Gr\u00fcnde&#8230;\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hay muchas razones para plantearse una terapia de pareja. Quiz\u00e1 hace tiempo que sientes que tu relaci\u00f3n ya no es feliz, pero no sabes exactamente por qu\u00e9. Tal vez \u00abtodo va bien de todos modos\u00bb, pero piensas que \u00abhay algo m\u00e1s\u00bb. O tal vez est\u00e9s sumido en una crisis y ya no haya vuelta atr\u00e1s ni hacia delante: las conversaciones constructivas son ahora casi imposibles.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Llevas tiempo pregunt\u00e1ndote <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">si el asesoramiento podr\u00eda ser lo m\u00e1s adecuado para ti en este momento. Tambi\u00e9n es posible que te sientas confundido por la jungla de m\u00e9todos diferentes: no quieres hacer nada mal y no sabes exactamente c\u00f3mo podr\u00eda ser el asesoramiento. Lo entiendo, al fin y al cabo se trata de un tema importante: tu relaci\u00f3n amorosa. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\u00bbSi necesita ayuda para tomar una decisi\u00f3n, ha venido al lugar adecuado. \u00bb use_icon=\u00bbon\u00bb font_icon=\u00bb&#xe007;||divi||400&#8243; icon_color=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb icon_placement=\u00bbleft\u00bb image_icon_width=\u00bb190%\u00bb content_max_width=\u00bb100%\u00bb icon_placement_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb icon_placement_phone=\u00bbtop\u00bb icon_placement_last_edited=\u00bbon|desktop\u00bb admin_label=\u00bbgr\u00fcn: du bist hier genau richtig\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb header_text_color=\u00bb#1A5755&#8243; header_font_size=\u00bb20px\u00bb background_color=\u00bbrgba(58,158,126,0.2)\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\u00bb|||0px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb custom_margin=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb20px|30px|16px||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb|||30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb text_orientation_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb text_orientation_phone=\u00bbcenter\u00bb text_orientation_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb border_color_right=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_left=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_color_left=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_right_tablet=\u00bb\u00bb border_width_right_phone=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_width_right_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbIch arbeite differenzierungsbasiert\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Trabajo \u00abbasado en la diferenciaci\u00f3n\u00bb, lo que significa ante todo que quiero fomentar tu capacidad de autorreflexi\u00f3n con preguntas muy concretas. Se trata de analizar muy de cerca tus propios problemas, sobre todo cuando son desagradables. Cuando nos atrevemos a afrontar con honestidad cuestiones importantes, sobre todo en presencia de nuestra pareja, se abren puertas completamente nuevas a la intimidad y la cercan\u00eda.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Te explicar\u00e9 qu\u00e9 significa la diferenciaci\u00f3n y por qu\u00e9 es esencial para una relaci\u00f3n a largo plazo. Tambi\u00e9n te dar\u00e9 una visi\u00f3n de mi trabajo con ejemplos concretos.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbDer Praxistest: was bedeutet Differenzierung\u00bb module_id=\u00bbteil-1&#8243; _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<h2><b>La prueba pr\u00e1ctica: \u00bfQu\u00e9 significa concretamente la diferenciaci\u00f3n? <\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seg\u00fan David Schnarch, diferenciaci\u00f3n significa \u00ab&#8230; la capacidad de no hacer depender el propio sentido de identidad y autoestima de las reacciones de la pareja\u00bb.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esto requiere sobre todo dos cosas:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un yo estable: S\u00e9 qui\u00e9n soy y lo que quiero.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un \u00abyo relacionado\u00bb: Me enfrento al cambio y me \u00abreorganizo\u00bb constantemente.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\u00bbLa diferenciaci\u00f3n es la capacidad de mantener un sentido estable del yo en estrecho contacto emocional o f\u00edsico con una pareja.\u00bb use_icon=\u00bbon\u00bb font_icon=\u00bb&#xe007;||divi||400&#8243; icon_color=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb icon_placement=\u00bbleft\u00bb image_icon_width=\u00bb190%\u00bb content_max_width=\u00bb100%\u00bb icon_placement_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb icon_placement_phone=\u00bbtop\u00bb icon_placement_last_edited=\u00bbon|desktop\u00bb admin_label=\u00bbgr\u00fcn: Differenzierung bedeutet\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb header_text_color=\u00bb#1A5755&#8243; header_font_size=\u00bb20px\u00bb background_color=\u00bbrgba(58,158,126,0.2)\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\u00bb|||0px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb custom_margin=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb20px|30px|16px||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb|||30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb text_orientation_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb text_orientation_phone=\u00bbcenter\u00bb text_orientation_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb border_color_right=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_left=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_color_left=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_right_tablet=\u00bb\u00bb border_width_right_phone=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_width_right_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbFolgende Dinge lernst du\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seg\u00fan David Schnarch, en la terapia de pareja se aprenden las siguientes cosas:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Desarrollar la claridad: \u00bfQui\u00e9n soy? \u00bfQu\u00e9 es lo que quiero? \u00bfQu\u00e9 objetivos tengo?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo cuidar de m\u00ed misma sin que mi pareja tenga que validarme?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo calmarme y tener un efecto curativo sobre mis propias heridas?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo afrontar los problemas que me confunden sin reaccionar de forma exagerada ni huir?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo crear intimidad y mantener mi propia integridad al mismo tiempo?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfC\u00f3mo lograr un equilibrio entre autonom\u00eda y compromiso?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\u00bbEst\u00e1s trabajando en estos objetivos porque la relaci\u00f3n es importante para ti: tu relaci\u00f3n amorosa Y la relaci\u00f3n contigo mismo. \u00bb use_icon=\u00bbon\u00bb font_icon=\u00bb&#xe007;||divi||400&#8243; icon_color=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb icon_placement=\u00bbleft\u00bb image_icon_width=\u00bb190%\u00bb content_max_width=\u00bb100%\u00bb icon_placement_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb icon_placement_phone=\u00bbtop\u00bb icon_placement_last_edited=\u00bbon|desktop\u00bb admin_label=\u00bbgr\u00fcn: Du arbeitest an diesen Zielen\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb header_text_color=\u00bb#1A5755&#8243; header_font_size=\u00bb20px\u00bb background_color=\u00bbrgba(58,158,126,0.2)\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\u00bb|||0px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb custom_margin=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb20px|30px|16px||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb|||30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb text_orientation_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb text_orientation_phone=\u00bbcenter\u00bb text_orientation_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb border_color_right=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_left=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_color_left=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_right_tablet=\u00bb\u00bb border_width_right_phone=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_width_right_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbDu arbeitest also Arbeitsauftrag\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Desarrollas una tarea clara: \u00bfqu\u00e9 quieres conseguir con el asesoramiento? Esto puede hacerse en parejas, pero tambi\u00e9n en solitario. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbWas passiert genau in der Paarberatung\u00bb module_id=\u00bbteil-2&#8243; _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A menudo me preguntan por el proceso de asesoramiento Crucible. \u00bfC\u00f3mo funciona el m\u00e9todo? El asesoramiento sigue una estructura clara:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se trata del aqu\u00ed y ahora. \u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre en la sala de asesoramiento? \u00bfC\u00f3mo interact\u00faan los interlocutores? \u00bfQu\u00e9 crea tensi\u00f3n? \u00bfQu\u00e9 emociones se sienten?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hablo directamente de lo que percibo y hago de las cosas un problema, aunque sean desagradables.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hago muchas preguntas para comprender la din\u00e1mica de la relaci\u00f3n y permitir la autoconfrontaci\u00f3n.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No me atengo a las reglas convencionales de la conversaci\u00f3n (dejar que la gente termine lo que est\u00e1 diciendo&#8230;), sino que intervengo activamente en el curso del asesoramiento.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Para algunos, esto puede resultar desconocido o incluso un poco inquietante al principio.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\u00bbSe trata de ver las cosas desde otra perspectiva.\u00bb use_icon=\u00bbon\u00bb font_icon=\u00bb&#xe007;||divi||400&#8243; icon_color=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb icon_placement=\u00bbleft\u00bb image_icon_width=\u00bb190%\u00bb content_max_width=\u00bb100%\u00bb icon_placement_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb icon_placement_phone=\u00bbtop\u00bb icon_placement_last_edited=\u00bbon|desktop\u00bb admin_label=\u00bbgr\u00fcn: Es geht darum&#8230;\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb header_text_color=\u00bb#1A5755&#8243; header_font_size=\u00bb20px\u00bb background_color=\u00bbrgba(58,158,126,0.2)\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\u00bb|||0px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb custom_margin=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb20px|30px|16px||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb|||30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb text_orientation_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb text_orientation_phone=\u00bbcenter\u00bb text_orientation_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb border_color_right=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_left=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_color_left=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_right_tablet=\u00bb\u00bb border_width_right_phone=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_width_right_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbIch bin also eine dritte Person\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As\u00ed que soy una tercera persona que mira tu relaci\u00f3n desde fuera y te ayuda a ver los asuntos importantes desde una nueva perspectiva. Esto NO significa que yo sepa lo que est\u00e1 \u00abbien\u00bb o \u00abmal\u00bb. Tampoco significa que te diga lo que tienes que hacer, \u00a1no puedo hacerlo! Pero: te ayudar\u00e9 a entender y a cambiar suavemente la din\u00e1mica de las relaciones.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbDie vier Punkte der Balance\u00bb module_id=\u00bbteil-3&#8243; _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<h2><b>Los cuatro puntos de equilibrio seg\u00fan David Schnarch<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seg\u00fan David Schnarch, se necesitan cuatro puntos para que la diferenciaci\u00f3n sea posible:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9l los llama \u00abpuntos de equilibrio\u00bb. Estos puntos se refuerzan sistem\u00e1ticamente en el asesoramiento de Crucible. Cuanto m\u00e1s fuertes sean los cuatro puntos de equilibrio, m\u00e1s diferenciada estar\u00e1 la persona.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\u00bbReforzamos sistem\u00e1ticamente su diferenciaci\u00f3n mediante el asesoramiento.\u00bb use_icon=\u00bbon\u00bb font_icon=\u00bb&#xe007;||divi||400&#8243; icon_color=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb icon_placement=\u00bbleft\u00bb image_icon_width=\u00bb190%\u00bb content_max_width=\u00bb100%\u00bb icon_placement_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb icon_placement_phone=\u00bbtop\u00bb icon_placement_last_edited=\u00bbon|desktop\u00bb admin_label=\u00bbgr\u00fcn:In der Beratung st\u00e4rken wir systematisch deine Differenzierung. \u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb header_text_color=\u00bb#1A5755&#8243; header_font_size=\u00bb20px\u00bb background_color=\u00bbrgba(58,158,126,0.2)\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\u00bb|||0px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb custom_margin=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb20px|30px|16px||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb|||30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb text_orientation_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb text_orientation_phone=\u00bbcenter\u00bb text_orientation_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb border_color_right=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_left=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_color_left=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_right_tablet=\u00bb\u00bb border_width_right_phone=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_width_right_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbEine starke Differenzierung bedeutet:<br \/>\n\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Una fuerte diferenciaci\u00f3n significa:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Te vuelves menos dependiente del juicio de los dem\u00e1s<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Te vuelves m\u00e1s capaz de defenderte\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eres m\u00e1s capaz de experimentar intimidad en tu relaci\u00f3n amorosa<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estas competencias se fomentan con preguntas muy concretas.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbWie bestimmte Fragen&#8230;\u00bb module_id=\u00bbteil-4&#8243; _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<h2><b>C\u00f3mo ciertas preguntas promueven tu capacidad para mantenerte fiel a ti mismo y tener una relaci\u00f3n amorosa satisfactoria al mismo tiempo.<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He aqu\u00ed un ejemplo de la pr\u00e1ctica: Mi clienta Christina se quejaba mucho de su pareja: \u00abEstoy todo el d\u00eda en casa con los ni\u00f1os. Tengo que ocuparme constantemente de ellos, ordenar, hacer la compra, cuidarlos. Y lo primero que dice cuando llega a casa: \u00ab\u00bfQu\u00e9 pinta esto aqu\u00ed?\u00bb.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Christina se siente rechazada, ignorada en sus esfuerzos, quiz\u00e1s incluso devaluada por la pregunta de su pareja. A menudo ha dicho que se siente injustamente tratada, pero eso no ha cambiado el comportamiento de su pareja: siempre ha habido discusiones. En la primera sesi\u00f3n, ella esperaba que yo la apoyara. Y su pareja esperaba que yo le criticara por su declaraci\u00f3n.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sin embargo, en lugar de enfrentarme a mi pareja, mi primera pregunta va dirigida a Christina. Percibo una ligera irritaci\u00f3n en ambas &#8211; deliberadamente no hago lo que ambas esperan, sino que \u00abhago algo diferente\u00bb: este es ya el primer paso de mi intervenci\u00f3n consciente: se rompe el patr\u00f3n para permitir una nueva perspectiva.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\u00bb\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedo ampliar mi margen de maniobra en lugar de reaccionar siempre de la misma manera? \u00bb use_icon=\u00bbon\u00bb font_icon=\u00bb&#xe007;||divi||400&#8243; icon_color=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb icon_placement=\u00bbleft\u00bb image_icon_width=\u00bb190%\u00bb content_max_width=\u00bb100%\u00bb icon_placement_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb icon_placement_phone=\u00bbtop\u00bb icon_placement_last_edited=\u00bbon|desktop\u00bb admin_label=\u00bbgr\u00fcn:Das Muster wird durchbrochen\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb header_text_color=\u00bb#1A5755&#8243; header_font_size=\u00bb20px\u00bb background_color=\u00bbrgba(58,158,126,0.2)\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\u00bb|||0px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb custom_margin=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb20px|30px|16px||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb|||30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb text_orientation_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb text_orientation_phone=\u00bbcenter\u00bb text_orientation_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb border_color_right=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_left=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_color_left=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_right_tablet=\u00bb\u00bb border_width_right_phone=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_width_right_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbWie bestimmte Fragen&#8230;\u00bb module_id=\u00bbteil-4&#8243; _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mi primera pregunta irrita a los dos. Me quedo con Christina y le pregunto: \u00ab\u00bfEst\u00e1 bien tu pareja? \u00bfC\u00f3mo te queda? \u00bfEst\u00e1s contento T\u00da con el aspecto que tiene?\u00bb.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Christina se lo piensa (\u00abNunca lo hab\u00eda pensado\u00bb). Hablamos de expectativas (de nosotros mismos, de la relaci\u00f3n). La conversaci\u00f3n no se detiene en las acusaciones, sino que va mucho m\u00e1s all\u00e1: de repente se trata de expectativas (decepcionadas) (de la pareja y de uno mismo). Ambos empiezan a hablar de ideas de orden en casa, de estar agobiados y de sentirse solos.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En este caso, Christina descubri\u00f3 que no estaba a la altura de sus propias expectativas y que su pareja lo reflejaba pidi\u00e9ndoselo.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tras un poco de asesoramiento, pudo decir claramente: \u00abQuiero que las cosas sean diferentes en casa, pero no quiero ser la \u00fanica responsable\u00bb. Se reorganiz\u00f3 toda la rutina familiar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Christina recuper\u00f3 autom\u00e1ticamente su capacidad de actuar: reflexion\u00f3 sobre su propia reacci\u00f3n y ahora puede elegir c\u00f3mo quiere afrontarla.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbIch bin also eine dritte Person\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfHasta qu\u00e9 punto eres decidido y est\u00e1s dispuesto a enfrentarte a cosas desagradables si sirven para tu crecimiento personal? En la terapia de pareja, seg\u00fan David Schnarch, analizamos juntos los efectos de nuestro comportamiento en la relaci\u00f3n. \u00bfTu comportamiento refleja realmente tus valores?<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\u00bbZusammenfassung\u00bb module_id=\u00bbteil-5&#8243; _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.4&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<h2><b>Resumen<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Es completamente normal que las relaciones sentimentales duraderas se enfrenten a diversos retos. El asesoramiento de parejas basado en la diferenciaci\u00f3n utiliza estas crisis como oportunidades de crecimiento personal. Se utilizan preguntas espec\u00edficas para fomentar la autorreflexi\u00f3n e identificar nuevas opciones de acci\u00f3n. Seg\u00fan David Schnarch, el asesoramiento de parejas sigue una estructura muy concreta. El objetivo es reflexionar sobre el propio comportamiento y fomentar la responsabilidad personal. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\u00bb\u00bfEst\u00e1s dispuesto a quedarte con los temas importantes porque son importantes para vuestra relaci\u00f3n?<br \/>\n\u00bb use_icon=\u00bbon\u00bb font_icon=\u00bb&#xe007;||divi||400&#8243; icon_color=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb icon_placement=\u00bbleft\u00bb image_icon_width=\u00bb190%\u00bb content_max_width=\u00bb100%\u00bb icon_placement_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb icon_placement_phone=\u00bbtop\u00bb icon_placement_last_edited=\u00bbon|desktop\u00bb admin_label=\u00bbgr\u00fcn:Bist du bereit\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.2&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb header_text_color=\u00bb#1A5755&#8243; header_font_size=\u00bb20px\u00bb background_color=\u00bbrgba(58,158,126,0.2)\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\u00bb|||20px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\u00bb|||0px|false|false\u00bb image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb custom_margin=\u00bb||||false|false\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb20px|30px|16px||false|false\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb|||30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb text_orientation_tablet=\u00bbleft\u00bb text_orientation_phone=\u00bbcenter\u00bb text_orientation_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb border_color_right=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_left=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_color_left=\u00bb#3A9E7E\u00bb border_width_right_tablet=\u00bb\u00bb border_width_right_phone=\u00bb3px\u00bb border_width_right_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text content_tablet=\u00bb<\/p>\n<div id=%22idTextPanel%22 class=%22jqDnR%22>\n<p><strong><span style=%22font-size: 18pt;%22>\u00bfQuieres salir de los viejos patrones y entrar en un desarrollo real?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si tu relaci\u00f3n es importante para ti, ahora es el momento de analizarla m\u00e1s detenidamente.<br \/>\nAprovecha la oportunidad de tener una conversaci\u00f3n gratuita: con\u00f3ceme, hazme tus preguntas y descubre c\u00f3mo este tipo de asesoramiento puede ayudarte a avanzar. Si adem\u00e1s quieres saber c\u00f3mo funciona el proceso en la pr\u00e1ctica y en qu\u00e9 se diferencia este enfoque del coaching general, encontrar\u00e1s una visi\u00f3n general compacta en las <a href=%22https:\/\/happycouples.at\/es\/faq\/%22>preguntas frecuentes sobre coaching y m\u00e9todo<\/a>.<br \/>\n<span style=%22font-size: 12pt;%22><strong>No necesitas saber nada todav\u00eda, solo estar dispuest@ a mirar con honestidad.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=%22font-size: 14pt;%22>No dejes tu relaci\u00f3n al azar, y cont\u00e1ctame ahora.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u00bb content_phone=\u00bb<\/p>\n<div id=%22idTextPanel%22 class=%22jqDnR%22>\n<p><strong><span style=%22font-size: 18pt;%22>\u00bfQuieres salir de los viejos patrones y entrar en un desarrollo real?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si tu relaci\u00f3n es importante para ti, ahora es el momento de analizarla m\u00e1s detenidamente.<br \/>\nAprovecha la oportunidad de tener una conversaci\u00f3n gratuita: con\u00f3ceme, hazme tus preguntas y descubre c\u00f3mo este tipo de asesoramiento puede ayudarte a avanzar. Si adem\u00e1s quieres saber c\u00f3mo funciona el proceso en la pr\u00e1ctica y en qu\u00e9 se diferencia este enfoque del coaching general, encontrar\u00e1s una visi\u00f3n general compacta en las <a href=%22https:\/\/happycouples.at\/es\/faq\/%22>preguntas frecuentes sobre coaching y m\u00e9todo<\/a>.<br \/>\n<span style=%22font-size: 12pt;%22><strong>No necesitas saber nada todav\u00eda, solo estar dispuest@ a mirar con honestidad.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=%22font-size: 14pt;%22>No dejes tu relaci\u00f3n al azar, y cont\u00e1ctame ahora.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u00bb content_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb admin_label=\u00bbDu m\u00f6chtest herausfinden\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.9&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb]<\/p>\n<div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\">\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">\u00bfQuieres salir de los viejos patrones y entrar en un desarrollo real?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Si tu relaci\u00f3n es importante para ti, ahora es el momento de analizarla m\u00e1s detenidamente.<br \/>Aprovecha la oportunidad de tener una conversaci\u00f3n gratuita: con\u00f3ceme, hazme tus preguntas y descubre c\u00f3mo este tipo de asesoramiento puede ayudarte a avanzar. Si adem\u00e1s quieres saber c\u00f3mo funciona el proceso en la pr\u00e1ctica y en qu\u00e9 se diferencia este enfoque del coaching general, encontrar\u00e1s una visi\u00f3n general compacta en las <a href=\"https:\/\/happycouples.at\/es\/faq\/\">preguntas frecuentes sobre coaching y m\u00e9todo<\/a>.<br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>No necesitas saber nada todav\u00eda, solo estar dispuest@ a mirar con honestidad.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">No dejes tu relaci\u00f3n al azar, y cont\u00e1ctame ahora.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_button button_url=\u00bb\/es\/contacto\/\u00bb button_text=\u00bbConversaci\u00f3n gratuita\u00bb button_alignment=\u00bbleft\u00bb button_alignment_tablet=\u00bbcenter\u00bb button_alignment_phone=\u00bbcenter\u00bb button_alignment_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.8&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bb27c59870-7acd-40a4-b9bb-797fc25ff005&#8243; custom_margin=\u00bb10px|0px|0px|0px|false|false\u00bb custom_margin_tablet=\u00bb10px|0px|0px|0px|false|false\u00bb custom_margin_phone=\u00bb10px|0px|0px|0px|false|false\u00bb custom_margin_last_edited=\u00bbon|tablet\u00bb locked=\u00bboff\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/et_pb_button][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=\u00bb1_4&#8243; _builder_version=\u00bb4.27.0&#8243; _module_preset=\u00bbdefault\u00bb custom_padding=\u00bb|5vw||5vw|false|true\u00bb custom_padding_tablet=\u00bb|5vw||5vw|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_phone=\u00bb|5vw||5vw|false|false\u00bb custom_padding_last_edited=\u00bbon|phone\u00bb custom_css_main_element=\u00bbalign-self: center;\u00bb global_colors_info=\u00bb{}\u00bb][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfLe interesa saber c\u00f3mo trabajo? \u00bfC\u00f3mo funciona el asesoramiento de parejas seg\u00fan David Schnarch y es este m\u00e9todo adecuado para m\u00ed? Quieres ser fiel a ti mismo y tener una relaci\u00f3n sentimental satisfactoria al mismo tiempo &#8211; \u00a1descubre aqu\u00ed c\u00f3mo puede ayudarte mi asesoramiento!  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=\"1\" custom_padding_last_edited=\"on|phone\" admin_label=\"Header\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" background_color=\"#1A5755\" background_image=\"https:\/\/happycouples.at\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/Blog-Linie-4.svg\" width=\"100%\" max_width=\"100%\" module_alignment=\"center\" custom_padding=\"||||false|false\" custom_padding_tablet=\"||||false|false\" custom_padding_phone=\"||20px||false|false\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][et_pb_row column_structure=\"2_3,1_3\" custom_padding_last_edited=\"on|phone\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" width=\"100%\" max_width=\"1926px\" custom_padding=\"0px||0px||false|false\" custom_padding_tablet=\"70px||||false|false\" custom_padding_phone=\"46px||0px||false|false\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][et_pb_column type=\"2_3\" _builder_version=\"4.27.0\" _module_preset=\"default\" custom_padding=\"|||5vw|false|false\" custom_padding_tablet=\"|5vw||5vw|false|false\" custom_padding_phone=\"|5vw||5vw|false|false\" custom_padding_last_edited=\"on|phone\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][dsm_breadcrumbs items_bottom=\"0px\" separator_bottom=\"12px\" current_bottom=\"0px\" admin_label=\"Breadcrumbs\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" items_font_size=\"13px\" home_icon_font_size=\"14px\" separators_text_color=\"#F0ECEC\" separators_font_size=\"13px\" current_text_color=\"#F0ECEC\" current_font_size=\"13px\" custom_margin=\"||||false|false\" custom_padding=\"||0px||false|false\" custom_css_main_element=\"margin-bottom: 20px !important;\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][\/dsm_breadcrumbs][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Beitragstitel (H1) \" _builder_version=\"4.27.4\" _module_preset=\"default\" text_text_color=\"#F0ECEC\" header_text_color=\"#F0ECEC\" custom_margin=\"||10px||false|false\" custom_padding=\"||10px||false|false\" header_font_size_tablet=\"40px\" header_font_size_phone=\"32px\" header_font_size_last_edited=\"on|phone\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><h1><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wie funktioniert differenzierungsbasierte Paarberatung?<\/span><\/h1><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Text\" _builder_version=\"4.27.4\" _module_preset=\"default\" text_text_color=\"#F0ECEC\" text_font_size=\"20px\" text_line_height=\"1.5em\" header_3_text_color=\"#F0ECEC\" hover_enabled=\"0\" text_font_size_tablet=\"20px\" text_font_size_phone=\"18px\" text_font_size_last_edited=\"on|phone\" custom_css_main_element=\"line-height: 1.6em !important;\" global_colors_info=\"{}\" sticky_enabled=\"0\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Interessiert es dich, wie ich arbeite? 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Du m\u00f6chtest dir selbst treu bleiben und gleichzeitig eine erf\u00fcllende Liebesbeziehung f\u00fchren- finde hier heraus, wie dich meine Beratung dabei unterst\u00fctzt!\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=\"1_3\" _builder_version=\"4.27.0\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=\"1\" admin_label=\"Inhalt\" module_class=\"contentbereich\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" background_color=\"RGBA(255,255,255,0)\" width=\"100%\" max_width=\"100%\" module_alignment=\"center\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][et_pb_row column_structure=\"3_4,1_4\" make_equal=\"on\" _builder_version=\"4.27.0\" _module_preset=\"default\" width=\"100%\" max_width=\"1926px\" custom_margin_tablet=\"||||false|false\" custom_margin_phone=\"||||false|false\" custom_margin_last_edited=\"off|desktop\" custom_padding=\"0px||||false|false\" custom_css_main_element=\"align-self: center;\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][et_pb_column type=\"3_4\" _builder_version=\"4.27.0\" _module_preset=\"default\" custom_padding=\"|5vw||5vw|false|true\" custom_padding_tablet=\"|5vw||5vw|false|false\" custom_padding_phone=\"|5vw||5vw|false|false\" custom_padding_last_edited=\"on|phone\" custom_css_main_element=\"align-self: center;\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Inhaltsverzeichnis\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><h2>Inhaltsverzeichnis<\/h2><p><a href=\"#teil-1\">Der Praxistest: Was bedeutet Differenzierung konkret?<\/a><\/p><p><a href=\"#teil-2\">Was passiert eigentlich genau in der Beratung? Hat das alles eine Struktur?<\/a><\/p><p><a href=\"#teil-3\">Die vier Punkte der Balance nach David Schnarch<\/a><\/p><p><a href=\"#teil-4\">Wie bestimmte Fragen deine F\u00e4higkeit f\u00f6rdern, dir selbst treu zu bleiben und gleichzeitig eine erf\u00fcllende Liebesbeziehung zu f\u00fchren<\/a><\/p><p><a href=\"#teil-5\">Zusammenfassung<\/a><\/p><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Es gibt viele Gr\u00fcnde...\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><p>Es gibt viele Gr\u00fcnde, an eine Paarberatung zu denken. Vielleicht sp\u00fcrst du schon l\u00e4nger, dass du nicht mehr zufrieden bist in deiner Beziehung- aber du wei\u00dft selbst nicht so genau, warum. Vielleicht \u201cpasst eigentlich eh alles\u201d, aber du denkst dir, \u201cda geht noch mehr\u201d! Oder aber ihr steckt tief in der Krise und es geht weder vor noch zur\u00fcck- konstruktive Gespr\u00e4che sind mittlerweile fast unm\u00f6glich.<\/p><p>Du \u00fcberlegst schon eine ganze Weile, ob eine Beratung f\u00fcr jetzt das Richtige sein k\u00f6nnte. Im Dschungel der verschiedenen Methoden bist du vielleicht auch verwirrt: du m\u00f6chtest nichts falsch machen und wei\u00dft nicht so genau, wie so eine Beratung \u00fcberhaupt aussehen k\u00f6nnte. 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Es geht darum, ganz genau auf eigene Themen zu schauen- vor allem dann, wenn diese unangenehm sind. Wenn wir uns trauen, uns wichtigen Themen ehrlich zu stellen- noch dazu im Beisein unseres Partners\/unserer Partnerin, dann \u00f6ffnet das ganz neue T\u00fcren f\u00fcr N\u00e4he und Intimit\u00e4t.\u00a0<\/p><p>Ich erkl\u00e4re dir gleich, was Differenzierung bedeutet und warum sie f\u00fcr eine langfristig funktionierende Beziehung essentiell ist. 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Was will ich? Welche Ziele habe ich?<\/li><li>Wie kann ich f\u00fcr mich selbst sorgen- ohne, dass mich mein*e Partner*in best\u00e4tigen muss?<\/li><li>Wie kann ich mich selbst beruhigen und heilsam auf meine eigenen Verletzungen einwirken?<\/li><li>Wie kann ich mich Problemen stellen, die mich verwirren- ohne \u00fcberzureagieren oder davon zu laufen?<\/li><li>Wie kann ich Intimit\u00e4t schaffen und gleichzeitig meine eigene Integrit\u00e4t wahren?<\/li><li>Wie k\u00f6nnen wir ein ausgewogenes Verh\u00e4ltnis zwischen Autonomie und Bindung schaffen?<\/li><\/ul><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\"Du arbeitest an diesen Zielen, weil dir die Beziehung wichtig ist- deine Liebesbeziehung UND die Beziehung zu dir selbst.\" use_icon=\"on\" font_icon=\"\ue007||divi||400\" icon_color=\"#3A9E7E\" icon_placement=\"left\" image_icon_width=\"190%\" content_max_width=\"100%\" icon_placement_tablet=\"left\" icon_placement_phone=\"top\" icon_placement_last_edited=\"on|desktop\" admin_label=\"gr\u00fcn: Du arbeitest an diesen Zielen\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" header_text_color=\"#1A5755\" header_font_size=\"20px\" background_color=\"rgba(58,158,126,0.2)\" image_icon_custom_margin=\"|||20px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\"|||20px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\"|||0px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\"on|phone\" custom_margin=\"||||false|false\" custom_padding=\"20px|30px|16px||false|false\" custom_padding_tablet=\"|||30px|false|false\" custom_padding_phone=\"20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\" custom_padding_last_edited=\"on|phone\" text_orientation_tablet=\"left\" text_orientation_phone=\"center\" text_orientation_last_edited=\"on|phone\" border_color_right=\"#3A9E7E\" border_width_left=\"3px\" border_color_left=\"#3A9E7E\" border_width_right_tablet=\"\" border_width_right_phone=\"3px\" border_width_right_last_edited=\"on|phone\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Du arbeitest also Arbeitsauftrag\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><p>Du entwickelst einen klaren Arbeitsauftrag- was willst du durch die Beratung erreichen? Das geht zu zweit, aber auch allein.\u00a0<\/p><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Was passiert genau in der Paarberatung\" module_id=\"teil-2\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><h2>Was passiert eigentlich genau in der Beratung? Hat das alles eine Struktur?<\/h2><p>Ich werde oft nach dem Ablauf einer Crucible-Beratung gefragt. Wie funktioniert die Methode? Die Beratung folgt einer klaren Struktur:<\/p><ul><li>Es geht um das Hier und Jetzt. Was passiert im Beratungsraum? Wie agieren die Partner*innen miteinander? Was erzeugt Spannung? Welche Emotionen sind sp\u00fcrbar?<\/li><li>Ich spreche direkt an, was ich wahrnehme und mache Dinge zum Thema- auch, wenn sie unangenehm sind.<\/li><li>Ich stelle viele Fragen, um die Dynamik der Beziehung zu verstehen und Selbstkonfrontation zu erm\u00f6glichen.<\/li><li>Ich halte mich nicht an konventionelle Gespr\u00e4chsregeln (ausreden lassen\u2026), sondern greife aktiv in den Verlauf der Beratung ein. F\u00fcr manche mag das anfangs durchaus ungewohnt oder sogar ein bisschen verst\u00f6rend sein.<\/li><\/ul><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\"Es geht darum, Dinge aus einer anderen Perspektive zu sehen. \" use_icon=\"on\" font_icon=\"\ue007||divi||400\" icon_color=\"#3A9E7E\" icon_placement=\"left\" image_icon_width=\"190%\" content_max_width=\"100%\" icon_placement_tablet=\"left\" icon_placement_phone=\"top\" icon_placement_last_edited=\"on|desktop\" admin_label=\"gr\u00fcn: Es geht darum...\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" header_text_color=\"#1A5755\" header_font_size=\"20px\" background_color=\"rgba(58,158,126,0.2)\" image_icon_custom_margin=\"|||20px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\"|||20px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\"|||0px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\"on|phone\" custom_margin=\"||||false|false\" custom_padding=\"20px|30px|16px||false|false\" custom_padding_tablet=\"|||30px|false|false\" custom_padding_phone=\"20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\" custom_padding_last_edited=\"on|phone\" text_orientation_tablet=\"left\" text_orientation_phone=\"center\" text_orientation_last_edited=\"on|phone\" border_color_right=\"#3A9E7E\" border_width_left=\"3px\" border_color_left=\"#3A9E7E\" border_width_right_tablet=\"\" border_width_right_phone=\"3px\" border_width_right_last_edited=\"on|phone\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Ich bin also eine dritte Person\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><p>Ich bin also eine dritte Person, die von au\u00dfen auf eure Beziehung schaut und euch unterst\u00fctzt, wichtige Themen aus einer neuen Perspektive zu sehen. Das hei\u00dft NICHT, dass ich wei\u00df, was \u201crichtig\u201d oder \u201cfalsch\u201d ist. Das hei\u00dft auch NICHT, dass ich euch sage, was zu tun ist- das kann ich gar nicht! Aber: Ich helfe euch, Beziehungsdynamiken zu verstehen und behutsam zu ver\u00e4ndern.<\/p><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Die vier Punkte der Balance\" module_id=\"teil-3\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><h2>Die vier Punkte der Balance nach David Schnarch<\/h2><p>Damit Differenzierung m\u00f6glich ist, braucht es laut David Schnarch vier Punkte:<\/p><p>Er nennt sie \u201cPunkte der Balance\u201d. Diese Punkte werden in der Crucible-Beratung systematisch gest\u00e4rkt. Je st\u00e4rker die vier Punkte der Balance, desto differenzierter wird die Person.<\/p><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\"In der Beratung st\u00e4rken wir systematisch deine Differenzierung. \" use_icon=\"on\" font_icon=\"\ue007||divi||400\" icon_color=\"#3A9E7E\" icon_placement=\"left\" image_icon_width=\"190%\" content_max_width=\"100%\" icon_placement_tablet=\"left\" icon_placement_phone=\"top\" icon_placement_last_edited=\"on|desktop\" admin_label=\"gr\u00fcn:In der Beratung st\u00e4rken wir systematisch deine Differenzierung. \" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" header_text_color=\"#1A5755\" header_font_size=\"20px\" background_color=\"rgba(58,158,126,0.2)\" image_icon_custom_margin=\"|||20px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\"|||20px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\"|||0px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\"on|phone\" custom_margin=\"||||false|false\" custom_padding=\"20px|30px|16px||false|false\" custom_padding_tablet=\"|||30px|false|false\" custom_padding_phone=\"20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\" custom_padding_last_edited=\"on|phone\" text_orientation_tablet=\"left\" text_orientation_phone=\"center\" text_orientation_last_edited=\"on|phone\" border_color_right=\"#3A9E7E\" border_width_left=\"3px\" border_color_left=\"#3A9E7E\" border_width_right_tablet=\"\" border_width_right_phone=\"3px\" border_width_right_last_edited=\"on|phone\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Eine starke Differenzierung bedeutet:<br \/>\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><p>Eine starke Differenzierung bedeutet:<\/p><ul><li>Du wirst unabh\u00e4ngiger vom Urteil von Anderen.<\/li><li>Du wirst f\u00e4higer, f\u00fcr dich selbst einzustehen.<\/li><li>Du schaffst es besser, Intimit\u00e4t in deiner Liebesbeziehung zu erleben.<\/li><\/ul><p>Diese F\u00e4higkeiten werden mit ganz bestimmten Fragen gef\u00f6rdert.\u00a0<\/p><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Wie bestimmte Fragen...\" module_id=\"teil-4\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><h2>Wie bestimmte Fragen deine F\u00e4higkeit f\u00f6rdern, dir selbst treu zu bleiben und gleichzeitig eine erf\u00fcllende Liebesbeziehung zu f\u00fchren<\/h2><p>Hier ein Beispiel aus der Praxis: Meine Klientin Christina beschwerte sich heftig \u00fcber ihren Partner: \u201cDen ganzen Tag bin ich mit den Kindern zuhause.\" Permanent muss ich mich k\u00fcmmern, r\u00e4umen, einkaufen, versorgen. Und das erste, was er sagt,wenn er nach Hause kommt: \"Wie sieht es denn hier aus?\u201d<\/p><p>Christina f\u00fchlt sich abgelehnt, in ihren Bem\u00fchungen ignoriert, vielleicht durch die Frage ihres Partners sogar abgewertet. Sie hat schon oft gesagt, dass sie sich unfair behandelt f\u00fchlt, doch am Verhalten ihres Partners hat das nichts ver\u00e4ndert- es kam immer wieder zu Streit. In der ersten Sitzung erwartete sie sich Unterst\u00fctzung von mir. Und der Partner erwartete, dass ich ihn f\u00fcr seine Aussage kritisieren w\u00fcrde.<\/p><p>Anstatt den Partner zu konfrontieren, richtet sich meine erste Frage aber an Christina. Ich sp\u00fcre eine leichte Irritation bei beiden- ich tue ganz bewusst nicht das, was beide erwarten, sondern \u201cmache etwas anderes\u201d: Das ist schon der erste Schritt meiner bewussten Intervention.<\/p><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb title=\"Das Muster wird durchbrochen, um eine neue Perspektive zu erm\u00f6glichen. \" use_icon=\"on\" font_icon=\"\ue007||divi||400\" icon_color=\"#3A9E7E\" icon_placement=\"left\" image_icon_width=\"190%\" content_max_width=\"100%\" icon_placement_tablet=\"left\" icon_placement_phone=\"top\" icon_placement_last_edited=\"on|desktop\" admin_label=\"gr\u00fcn:Das Muster wird durchbrochen\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" header_text_color=\"#1A5755\" header_font_size=\"20px\" background_color=\"rgba(58,158,126,0.2)\" image_icon_custom_margin=\"|||20px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_tablet=\"|||20px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_phone=\"|||0px|false|false\" image_icon_custom_margin_last_edited=\"on|phone\" custom_margin=\"||||false|false\" custom_padding=\"20px|30px|16px||false|false\" custom_padding_tablet=\"|||30px|false|false\" custom_padding_phone=\"20px|30px|16px|30px|false|false\" custom_padding_last_edited=\"on|phone\" text_orientation_tablet=\"left\" text_orientation_phone=\"center\" text_orientation_last_edited=\"on|phone\" border_color_right=\"#3A9E7E\" border_width_left=\"3px\" border_color_left=\"#3A9E7E\" border_width_right_tablet=\"\" border_width_right_phone=\"3px\" border_width_right_last_edited=\"on|phone\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"][\/et_pb_blurb][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Wie bestimmte Fragen...\" module_id=\"teil-4\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><p>Meine erste Frage irritiert beide- ich bleibe bei Christina und frage: \u201cHat Ihr Partner recht? Wie sieht es denn aus? Sind SIE denn zufrieden damit, wie es aussieht?\u201d<\/p><p>Christina\u00a0 \u00fcberlegt (\u201cDar\u00fcber habe ich noch nie nachgedacht.\u201d). Wir sprechen \u00fcber Erwartungen (an sich selbst, an die Beziehung). Das Gespr\u00e4ch bleibt nicht beim Vorwurf, sondern geht viel tiefer- es geht pl\u00f6tzlich um (entt\u00e4uschte) Erwartungen (an den Partner und an sich selbst). Beide kommen ins Gespr\u00e4ch \u00fcber Vorstellungen von Ordnung zu Hause, von \u00dcberforderung und vom Gef\u00fchl des Allein-gelassen-Werdens.<\/p><p>In diesem Fall hat Christina herausgefunden, dass sie ihren eigenen Erwartungen nicht gerecht wird und ihr Partner das durch seine Frage gespiegelt hat.<\/p><p>Nach einigen Beratungen konnte sie klar aussprechen: \u201cIch m\u00f6chte, dass es zu Hause anders aussieht, aber nicht alleine daf\u00fcr verantwortlich sein.\u201d Der gesamte Familienalltag wurde neu organisiert.<\/p><p>Christina kam automatisch wieder in die Handlungsf\u00e4higkeit: Sie hat ihre eigene Reaktion reflektiert und hat jetzt die Wahlm\u00f6glichkeit, wie sie damit umgehen m\u00f6chte.<\/p><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Ich bin also eine dritte Person\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><p>Wie gro\u00df ist deine Entschlossenheit und deine Bereitschaft, dich mit unangenehmen Dingen zu konfrontieren, wenn sie dem pers\u00f6nlichen Wachstum dienen? In der Paarberatung nach David Schnarch schauen wir gemeinsam darauf, welche Auswirkungen dein eigenes Verhalten auf deine Beziehung hat. Entspricht dein Verhalten wirklich deinen Werten?<\/p><\/div><p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=\"Zusammenfassung\" module_id=\"teil-5\" _builder_version=\"4.27.2\" _module_preset=\"default\" global_colors_info=\"{}\"]<\/p><div id=\"idTextPanel\" class=\"jqDnR\"><h2>Zusammenfassung<\/h2><p>Es ist v\u00f6llig normal, dass langfristige Liebesbeziehungen mit verschiedenen Herausforderungen konfrontiert sind. Die differenzierungsbasierte Paarberatung nutzt diese Krisen als M\u00f6glichkeiten zum Pers\u00f6nlichkeitswachstum.<\/p><p>Mit gezielten Fragen werden Selbstreflexion gef\u00f6rdert und neue Handlungsoptionen aufgezeigt. Paarberatung nach David Schnarch folgt einer ganz bestimmten Struktur. 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